Chinese New Year happens the second new moon after the winter solstice. It's that new moon time again: the year of the Black Water Dragon (that's a water dragon that's black, instead of a dragon that lives in black water). I thank Veer for this illustration. Go here to see Neil Gaiman's rendition.
All new moons give us the opportunity to renew our commitments to ourselves. Certainly this inventive Aquarius new moon bodes well for exciting new beginnings and enlivening breakthroughs. Surprising events await us and unexpected epiphanies that will come to us as a result of keeping our eyes wide open. Make this a month—and a year—to remember!
Sunday, January 22, 2012
Sunday, January 1, 2012
Jan 2012
Season's Greetings!
This instead
Of recently-made-old
Merry Christmas
and
Happy Hanukkah
and maybe even
Happy Kwanzaa.
But,
Tis the Season,
Eh?
We're ready to celebrate,
and to invite
Our friends to celebrate…
and we include
Their own celebrations
In our well-wishing.
Inclusive is us.
Season's Greetings.
Whatever.
What ever
Are we all celebrating?
Eight days of candles?
Light of liberation and dedication.
Birth of a saviour?
Light of redemption and hope.
African roots, fruits, harvest?
Light of identity and past-into-present..
Tis the Season
Of renewal of All Light.
Tis the Season
Of relinquishing Darkness
To lengthening Days...
Of the return of Light
Bit by bit.
The return of Light.
Light of renewal.
Ah!!!
Season's Greetings
and
Happy New Light.
Have a shiny & sparkling year.
Renew yourself
and
Your library books.
Bette Forester
Toronto
31 Dec 2011
This instead
Of recently-made-old
Merry Christmas
and
Happy Hanukkah
and maybe even
Happy Kwanzaa.
But,
Tis the Season,
Eh?
We're ready to celebrate,
and to invite
Our friends to celebrate…
and we include
Their own celebrations
In our well-wishing.
Inclusive is us.
Season's Greetings.
Whatever.
What ever
Are we all celebrating?
Eight days of candles?
Light of liberation and dedication.
Birth of a saviour?
Light of redemption and hope.
African roots, fruits, harvest?
Light of identity and past-into-present..
Tis the Season
Of renewal of All Light.
Tis the Season
Of relinquishing Darkness
To lengthening Days...
Of the return of Light
Bit by bit.
The return of Light.
Light of renewal.
Ah!!!
Season's Greetings
and
Happy New Light.
Have a shiny & sparkling year.
Renew yourself
and
Your library books.
Bette Forester
Toronto
31 Dec 2011
Thank you Phoebe for this rainy Portland 5th Day of Christmas image...
and thank you Neil Gaiman for this benediction for a new year:
Wednesday, December 7, 2011
Dec 2011
Remembering Christmas in Ajijic...
Our first snow of the season came last evening. It was skimpy and wet. It hardly seems like the season it's trying to represent. Food banks and toy drives report donations are down and blame the weather. Apparently we simply don't think Christmas is coming yet if there's no snow.
I offer memory of the 2006 season in Mexico. If we can build a longing for southern suns, then it must be time for Christmas... and all the appropriate donations.
Our first snow of the season came last evening. It was skimpy and wet. It hardly seems like the season it's trying to represent. Food banks and toy drives report donations are down and blame the weather. Apparently we simply don't think Christmas is coming yet if there's no snow.
I offer memory of the 2006 season in Mexico. If we can build a longing for southern suns, then it must be time for Christmas... and all the appropriate donations.
Tuesday, November 1, 2011
Nov 2011
The season for farmers markets...
Farmers are busy these
days, harvesting before the ground is covered in snow. Of course they
may have missed the boat in New York where they've already got a white
cover. Time for us all to grab some roots and start simmering our fave
warming soups.
As usual in November, I
invite you to remember Kurt Vonnegut on his November 11th birthday. He
would have welcomed some beets in 1945 when he was a prisoner in Dresden
during the devastating fire-bombing. Let's all curl up with one of his
books and slurp some beet soup.
Send me your fave beets
recipe, whether soup or something else. Here's one I like that adds some
other roots...onions, garlic & ginger: Beet & Ginger Soup Recipe
Sunday, October 2, 2011
Oct 2011
Holding on to some last vestiges of summer...
When I lived in Texas (and later when I lived in Australia) I didn't spend much time watching the seasons. I did notice the sage in bloom before a rain (that's Texas) and the weed that I indulged because it was the only green in my Sydney back yard. That weed repaid me by producing tomatoes. From that you might infer I don't garden. You would be correct.
In Canada, however, I find
myself trying to stretch the summer, or at least my conscious awareness
of it. I do this by paying close attention to colours.
Every morning as I ride the
subway over the Don River I carefully grab a seat facing west. This
gives me a great view of the sun striking the west bank of the river and
all the trees upon it. I noted the first instance of yellow leaves a
good 4 weeks ago. Every day there have been more and many are starting
to morph into orange. They're still mostly green, but the move is on.
True oranges and browns will surround us soon.
And at my house, I wake up
every morning and look out this window where I'm still finding this
glorious evidence that it's not over til it's over.
Friday, September 2, 2011
Sep 2011
A Labour Day reminder...
Since the 1880s Canadians have celebrated the contributions of labour and specifically the development of the 8-hour day. The concept involved the recognition that workers should be able to work only 1/3 of each day. This was designed to leave 1/3 for sleep and 1/3 for recreation.
Funny how commuting, grocery shopping, housecleaning, cooking, laundry and activities of that ilk all seem to count as "recreation."
I implore you, this labour day, take the hint from this little street's sign near my office. Stay away from work AND all that boring recreation. Just relax and have fun.
Oh, and put away those white shoes.
Since the 1880s Canadians have celebrated the contributions of labour and specifically the development of the 8-hour day. The concept involved the recognition that workers should be able to work only 1/3 of each day. This was designed to leave 1/3 for sleep and 1/3 for recreation.
Funny how commuting, grocery shopping, housecleaning, cooking, laundry and activities of that ilk all seem to count as "recreation."
I implore you, this labour day, take the hint from this little street's sign near my office. Stay away from work AND all that boring recreation. Just relax and have fun.
Oh, and put away those white shoes.
Wednesday, August 3, 2011
Friday, July 1, 2011
Jul 2011
Happy Canada Day!April showers did bring May flowers. In Toronto we also had May showers and June showers. This Canada Day introduces us back to sunshine and all the flowers and swimming pools and barbecues and baseball (Jackson) and tennis (Lucas)... and fireworks tonight to emphasize the announcement of it all.
Starting today, I invite you to kick off your shoes and remember the school's-out-barefoot-days of your summers past. I started by remembering my own tender-foot determination of those first summer days. You????
I'm celebrating by adding a little maple leaf from the flag in honour of Don Watt.
Wednesday, June 1, 2011
Jun 2011
Peek-a-BooLast week I was in NYC watching Dr. Kate don cap and gown and receive her PhD at Lincoln Center. I watched with my good friend Susan, aka Kate's New York mum. Kate and I walked on the High Line and of course we found time to eat some of her favourite foods: tacos, pizza, pseudo chicken nuggets, and sag paneer. After the ceremony we three girls trekked to Harlem for the best cheese enchiladas in the world. Then we visited the Cathedral Church of St. John the Divine and the sculpture-laden Bestiary garden next to it.
We stayed with Susan in Astoria/Queens/Long Island City... just a few blocks from the Noguchi Museum. Isamu Noguchi worked in metal, stone (see the calendar), and light. You've probably seen his Akari Japanese paper lamps, which he called light sculptures. This museum is one of my all-time faves. And the Socrates Sculpture Park is just across the street, overlooking the East River and Manhattan.
Yes, there was some shopping. Mostly this trip was for the Kate sighting and a delightful visit with Susan; she was the nurse who looked after me when I was giving birth to Kate. I've known Susan exactly one day longer than I've known Kate.
Wednesday, May 4, 2011
Monday, May 2, 2011
Thursday, March 31, 2011
Apr 2011

You probably remember Dr. Kate from my August post...
Well, after finishing that Ph.D. last August, she moved to Berkeley where she's happily doing post-doc math things. This month I'm introducing you to her cat, Batman. Here, Batman's exploring Kate's new rug. It's called Little Field of Flowers and it's designed by Tord Boontje and made from wool felt by Nani Marquina. Batman and the Field live with Kate in her perfect Berkeley apartment behind the garden I showed you last November. As usual Kate's introducing me to lots of new things: the Field re-defines my concept of "rug." I do have a better basis for understanding this than I do string theory... and I hope you will join Batman and me to expand your rug-universe, too.
Monday, February 28, 2011
Mar 2011
My world returns to black and white...
Yes, we had a few days that tempted us into thinking winter was ready to retire, but Sunday morning brought this new scene at my home... and further delay to vivid Kodachrome moments.
In the meantime, Pantone has announced their Colour of the Year for 2011. They're calling it Honeysuckle (aka PMS 205 U for my fellow graphic peeps). The honeysuckle I grew up with was cream with little edges of yellow, but I'll take Pantone's pink interpretation as a beginning for a spring palette. I put in a little swatch here to get us all started. My little postmark bee has already donned new spring wings. You?
Thursday, February 3, 2011
Chinese New Year 2011
February 3 finds a New Moon in Aquariusand signals the Chinese New Year: Year of the Golden Rabbit
This year’s combination of metal as an earthly sign and the rabbit as a heavenly sign results in the year of the Golden Rabbit for the first time in 60 years. This Rabbit is associated with compassion, sensitivity and flexibility and is expected to bring stability -- sometimes through change.
The New Moon in Aquarius always reminds us to make a difference within our group and community networks.
And as every New Moon represents new beginnings, maybe you'd like start something new by making your own New Moon Wish. One of the most imaginative ways to understanding a New Moon is through creative intention setting, using a process known as New Moon Wishing. Jan Spiller coined this phrase in her book ‘New Moon Astrology’ (2001 Bantam). Some people keep a New Moon Wishes Journal.
The year of the Golden Rabbit seems like a good time to start mine.
Tuesday, February 1, 2011
Feb 2011
The days may be getting shorter...but they're still long and dark and winter's fully entrenched. We've had snow and snow and tonight's forecast is for snow: the worst storm of the season. Every dark cold evening as I walk from the Jane Subway Station to my new west-end digs, I pass old landmarks from my past. One such is the Odeon Theatre. Built in 1948, it went dark about seven years ago. One night recently as I walked I discovered its new light: this new sign installed above the marquee. I stood across the street and rejoiced.
Look! It's been renamed in honour of the near-by river and it's slated to re-open soon. Maybe even this month???
The dark days of winter won't seem nearly so long with a near-by flick. See the Thai Classic Cuisine sign reflected in the Humber's window? Seems like a suggestion for a tasty combo. Stay tuned for more news as it happens.
Monday, December 6, 2010
Dec 2010

Belated because...
I've been moving! Chaos clearing is slow but steady.
My new address is below, if you ever use snails.
Phone remains the same.
Have a great holiday time.
NOTE:
Just under the postmark is this year's Amy, an amaryllis. She came early as house warming observance from Leslie. She loves all the sun.
I do too.
Monday, November 1, 2010
Nov 10
Autumn in Berkeley...Visiting Dr. Kate a couple of weeks ago, we explored , walked a lot and ate some amazing food. We had Mexican food, of course... and Burmese food... and Brazilian sandwiches... and locally grown and harvested veggies and seafood.
One meal that falls into the last category was at Chez Panisse. Owner/chef Alice Waters' philosophy is to serve the most delicious organic products only when they are in season. Over the course of three decades, Chez Panisse has developed a network of local farmers and ranchers whose dedication to sustainable agriculture assures the restaurant a steady supply of pure and fresh ingredients.
As a part of her commitment to provide food education to youngsters Alice Waters created the Chez Panisse Foundation, establishing a strategy to transform the quality of school lunches that includes a model garden and kitchen programme on the grounds of a Berkeley public school. Called the Edible Schoolyard, this garden is directly behind Kate's home. This archway is a part of that garden. Go here to see more: http://www.edibleschoolyard.org
Friday, October 1, 2010
Oct 10
Frangipani memories... almostYou know about frangipani. They're the flowers for making leis. When I was a little girl there was a funny song about a frangipani sung by a woman whose name I never knew. I didn't understand what made the song funny. The lyrics may even have been rude, but I was too young to know just why people were laughing. The fact is, grown-ups laughed at that song and I loved it. I can still remember the fun and the laughter and a little of the tune... but none of the words.
Enter Google: I've learned so much about frangipani... AND... I've found some lovely songs. Seems lots are inspired by these petals and their pungent fragrance. But none of these found songs are the One. Guess I'm still on my own.
These particular frangipani flowers live outside my son Peter's office in Barbados. I bring them out now, as the days are getting shorter to remind you of the sun... and to remind me to remember something.
Wednesday, September 1, 2010
Sep 10
Tea Time...Summer's truly winding down, even if the temperature here in Toronto is setting new record highs. School's starting and Labour Day announces the season's last hurrah. With all our re-adjustments to the serious parts of the year, I invite you to regenerate gently and genteelly over a quiet cuppa. These ladies in a window at the Eaton Centre offer a glimpse of high tea redefined. Go ahead: put on your own hat and finery and lift a cup. Remember to hold your pinky finger up!
Monday, August 2, 2010
Aug 10
I'm so happy to announce...
In November of 1981 my little girl Kate started to Montessori school at the age of 2. Becky was her first teacher. She obviously started things off right. This morning Kate successfully defended her doctoral thesis and is now Dr. Kate.
Next she will begin post-doctoral studies at Berkeley.
Wherever you are, please join me in raising a glass in honour of all her hard work and her joy, which I share with tearful glee.
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